Attitude Adjustment
“In the Babemba tribe of South Africa, when a person acts irresponsibly or
unjustly, he is placed in the center of the village, alone and unfettered. All
work ceases, and everyone in the village gathers in a large circle around
the accused. Then each person in the tribe speaks to the accused, one at
a time, recalling the good things the person has done in his life. Every
experience that can be recalled with detail and accuracy is recounted. All
his positive attributes, good deeds, strengths, and kindnesses are recited
carefully. This ceremony often lasts for several days. At the end, a joyous
celebration takes place, and the person is symbolically and literally
welcomed back into the tribe.”
– Jack Kornfield, *The Art of Forgiveness, Lovingkindness, and Peace*