A Massive Outbreak of Peace!

Category: Happiness, Rhonda's Articles • by rhonda • Monday July 24, 2006

New peacemakers have emerged in the 21st century. They’re not political leaders. They’re not savvy diplomats. They are not only famous rock stars and billionaires. They’re women and men like you and me.

Together, holding hands and sensing the truth beyond circumstances, seeing beyond our limiting beliefs, we dare to remember our magnificence. Women reclaim our voices, and we invite the men in our lives to reconnect with their hearts. It is only together that we can manifest the balance and compassion needed and called for by love.

Together, in this circle of connection, we intend that there be peace… we choose to see it amidst hard times, we celebrate it with each smile, we call for it through our tears, we taste it, walk for it, teach about it, sing it, write about it, paint it, trust it, design our work around it, pray for it, stretch for it, encourage with it, bless the ill with it, smother our grandchildren in it, heal with it, meditate on it, surrender to it, nurture ourselves with it, wish on a star for it, have our words and actions match it, dream about it, are an activist for it, gather in it’s name, share it with every embrace or gentle thought for another, embody it by remembering who we really are. And, we forgive the rest, letting it go to be transformed back into what it has always really been… peace.

The massive outbreak is here, and we are it. We are the ordinary extraordinary ones daring to BE peace, holding its vision in every breath.

Let It Be - Betty Lur Leiber

Category: Catch All Happiness • by rhonda • Friday July 21, 2006

Let It Be

When you are caught in the troubles of the world, let it be.
When you are confused and conflicted, let it be.
When you are envy another’s success, let it be.
When you want to fix or change someone, let it be.

We are not here to save another.
We are here to heal ourselves.
We are not here to make the world better.
We are here to be better in our world.

Our work is within, not changing what is without.
Our real power is inner Peace, not to make others be Peaceful.
Our real Joy is to be happy, not to make others be Happy.
Our real love is to love the One we are, not to make another feel loved.

It is in Being that which we Give that we are credible in how we live.
It is in receiving from our gifts that we are given.
It is in providing that we are offered provision.
When the messenger receives their messages, they are content.

To feel Peace and Joy and Love, there is no lack, no need, to obligation.
To be Peace and Joy and Love, there is no limit and no hesitation.
To give the best with sacrifice, teaches others not to receive.
To have the best with generosity, teaches other they can believe.

Learn what you are teaching.
Live what you are preaching.
Lead with joy and freedom.
Follow only what you totally trust.

Let the world be.
The salvation of One Self begins within me and Thee.

We are all in this together.
We are all learning to play our part with ease and joy.
We are all working together to honor and encourage one another.

Learning from everyone and everything.

Stretch, Jump, Laugh, Smile

Category: Happiness, Rhonda's Articles • by rhonda • Friday July 21, 2006

It is a common complaint. Women often do not feel like they are enough. The world of personal growth tends to reinforce this false belief that life is a problem to be solved rather than a journey to be traveled. With the abundance of coaches and consultants, personal trainers, and advisors many women become dependant on seeking “help” to solve a “problem” when all the answers reside inside of us. Often the greatest problem is coming to the realization that we too easily fall into that trap of seeing life as the problem, rather than our own disconnect from who we authentically are..

Life is not the problem! Life is an event to be experienced, a journey to be traveled, and an adventure to be experienced in every fiber of our being. If we need help, it is to resolve the problem of seeing life as a problem! We need to be invited to meet our true self. Mentors and therapists should be only a means to free us to experience life fully, and in so doing allow life to inspire us to be fully who we are.

Don’t hold yourself back any longer by your limiting beliefs. Reclaim you boldness, grit and power. This is what makes you beautiful. Break the chains and dare to take on the responsibility and delight of your own joy. Open your heart to life and experience it with all its hills and valleys, for they are our greatest teachers. They are inevitable and offer new vistas and viewpoints. They hone us into diamonds.

Do something you’ve always dreamed of, even if you might fail. Do something you’ve never thought of, especially if you feel fear. Give generously, and replenish yourself fully. Tolerate the fear and do it anyway.

It’s time to get out of your known way. Stretch. Jump. Laugh. Smile. Live. Love. Learn, and dare to leave your own unique and powerful legacy.

Copyright 2006, all rights reserved
Reprint permission is granted if contact information is included in publication.

Rhonda Hull, Ph.D.
Professional Speaker, Mentor, and Author
of Drive Yourself Happy: A Motor-vational
Maintenance Manual for Maneuvering
Through Life

As a professional speaker, happiness mentor, and author of “Drive Yourself Happy”, let Dr. Rhonda Hull act as you ‘life driving instructor’ assisting you as you maneuver the road to personal balance, professional success, and authentic happiness. Rhonda has what it takes to guide you on your journey, making even the potholes along the way a valuable part of the adventure.

Visit: www.detourfromstress.com
Comments welcome at info@driveyourselfhappy.com

The Center of Happiness
P. O. Box 1667
Port Townsend, WA 98368
360.385.5850

Women Have Peace in the Palm of Our Hand

Category: Especially for Women, Rhonda's Articles • by rhonda • Friday July 21, 2006

Women see the big picture. It is our nature. Although when necessary we have adapted to linear thinking, we are designed to be multi-taskers, visionaries, and aware of a larger perspective for the greater good. Part of our journey is to build a new bridge between ‘Mars’ and ‘Venus’ by coloring outside the lines, stretching the rules. Women are called somehow to poke around until the new steps reveal a way for men and women to blend our experience, embrace and honor our differences, and unite our gifts in a mutually beneficial way. Without this leap of faith, peace will never happen.

I had to laugh when I heard the observation made by Barbara DeAngeles, a relationship expert, that women and men think and process life like their genitals. She stated, “Women talk in circles and men talk in a straight line!” The truth of this statement stopped me in my tracks.

Sadly, many women have lost a certain sense of knowing who they are as a result of living and working in a man’s world. We have allowed that ‘straight line’ way of being to silence our creativity and hide our compassionate gifts. But, the good news is that many women are now at an edgy place of unrest that is nudging them back into seeing the benefits of their circular way of being in the world.

For centuries, women’s big picture way of being has been discouraged, devalued and suppressed, but women no longer seem comfortable with or capable of remaining silent. Something now is bubbling up and we are actively reclaiming our voices, not in the abrasive feminist style of the 60’s, but with a new emerging face of the feminine that calls for a redefinition of our power, a feisty implementation of our energy, the shining of our grace and a non-violent way of connecting. We need to move forward with clear intention and without interruption, accepting that life is messy, no longer waiting for permission.

While some women are just peeking their heads out from under the covers, others are surging forward with the energy of a beach ball that can no longer be held under water. Some are more aware than others of the legacy of the ancestors that preceded them. There have always been bold women but now they are connecting to share the journey. In big and small ways we are percolating, lunging, inching, and being drawn forward more connected than ever before.

This new face of the feminine calls for leaving our petty differences behind and focusing on what meaningfully matters for the greatest good of all. We must unite inspired by our common ground, rather than allow our differences to contaminated our freedom. Each of us in our own way are choosing to hold again the out-stretched hand of our intuition, and from this place of trusting our self and others, we are sometimes guessing right and sometimes guessing wrong when best to be subtle and when to be bold.

This is just a part of the evolutionary dance of woman. By applying our experience, valuing our wisdom, giving from our hearts, learning how to receive, exposing our strengths, and daring to be prosperous with a feminine touch, we are shedding our scarcity beliefs and sharing our talents with a renewed certainty that we hold a secret to a more peaceful and respectful way of life on our planet.

Now is an exciting time. Women are feeling the pressures for change, and are asking, “What if I really am magnificent? And what if all women lived life as if we believed it until we fully remember our truth?

Regardless of the path we choose, women are daring to step back into their innate essence through their insights, dreams, and actions. Without their visionary thinking, our world will be lacking in innovation and fresh approaches necessary to lead us back to peace.

“But, I’m just little old me?” you might say. “What do I have to contribute?” “I’m not an activist.” “I’m too old.” “I’m too young.” “I don’t have enough time.” “I don’t have enough energy.” “Joey has soccer practice.” “I need to focus on making money.”

Here’s the deal. It’s not necessarily about ‘doing’. It’s about ‘being’ fully who you are in whatever you do! It’s about daring to clarify what you want, and embrace the magnificence of who you are, free of fear.

Here are a few ideas for unleashing your creativity and embracing your role as an evolutionary woman, even if in small ways…

1. Give yourself time If you don’t, no one else will
You are responsible for your own happiness, and believe me, everyone else will be happier when you are happier. Set the priority in place and declare your space, then honor it. Build the rest of your life around it. We teach people how to honor us by how we honor our self. If you don’t honor yourself, no one else will.

2. Dare to vision, dream, create, and harness your ideas
Turn off your self-critical voice and just allow your creative thoughts to bubble up. It’s fun. No matter how outrageous or silly, far-out or impossible they may seem, catch your ideas, jot them down, tell a trusted friend, ponder over a cup of tea, journal, give them a life, play them out in your imagination, and revisit them from time to time. Like a garden, some will grow and some will not. But don’t discard your creativity before your give it a chance to take root.

3. Acknowledge your strengths
Women have been so good at meeting the expectations of others that we have lost touch with what we really want. What is calling you? If we don’t answer this question it becomes easy to blame others for not having what we want. It is so easily get trapped doing what we ’think’ we ‘should’ rather than listening for what pulls at our heart strings. Women ‘allow’ rather than ‘force’ by nature. It’s time to identify what be want, and to fully honoring our own talents and strengths if we are to breathe new life into our magnificence.

As women, we have come to see and accept life being a struggle, and often feel we are swimming upstream weighted down by our fears. An important step for creative women and entrepreneurs is to flush out limited thinking and refocus on all that is working around us. As we shift our beliefs and adjust our perspective life can flow naturally, come more easily, and unfold effortlessly. Celebrate even small steps forward, and know that a bigger picture of forward motion may require a few steps backward. The circumstances don’t matter. It’s the grace with which we manage them makes a difference.

4. Reframe “overwhelm”
Challenges need not be an enemy, but can easily be that if perceived as such. Overwhelm is sometimes caused by having too much on our plate. Acknowledgement is often the ‘reward’ from outer sources when we are appearing to be too busy. Overwhelm can become an unconscious way we get attention. Odd as it seems, we manufacture our busy-ness so we can be admired for our overwhelm management skills, rather than choosing a more peaceful way of managing life.

Important steps for calming our busy-ness and overwhelm is to set clear boundaries and to manage our self-care. Dare to say ‘No’ and say ‘Yes’ only when you truly mean it. Respond rather than react. Breathe. Find an appropriate outlet for your frustration and anger. Taking on too many responsibilities will burn you out, blur your focus, and zap your creative abilities. The greatest gift you can give another is to take full accountability and responsibility for your own happiness.

Then, get real with time management. If you are fooling yourself about how you use your time and don’t set clear intentions and priorities to guide your evolution you will feel overwhelmed. You will be zapped of your energy, your focus, as well as the authentic connection to your self and the ones you love.

Overall, live life with clear intentions, clear about what you want, but with a looser grip. Let life lead.

5. Listen beyond words and beyond your own filters
Women observe by nature. We drink in the big picture and see the subtle details. We read people’s energy and have those funny inner feelings that forewarn us of conflict ahead. We also have a huge capacity to be loving and compassionate, often at our own expense. When you truly nurture yourself you can authentically serve another.

Notice what is being said beyond the words being used. What do you hear people truly asking for? What are they NOT saying? What are they complaining about? Remove your own biases and filters as you listen. Listen for what they need rather than react to what they feel. Stand in the shoes of another. Ask open-ended questions, look for themes, and expect miracles.

Women are evolving. We are not called to figure out the answer, but rather to allow the answer to come to us. After all, life is a journey, not a destination. Ask yourself often, would you rather be right or happy?

6. Embrace and nurture your intuition
Women have hunches, nudges, and knowings. We push them away or kill them with logic. Take time with yourself. Listen for your own voice. Learn to trust and welcome that whispering voice of guidance that stirs within you. Lean into it and follow your hunches and intuitions. Only then will you rediscover they are instrumental in you fully discovering who you are. You are afraid that the one you will find will be horrific and less than wonderful. This is the lie that hold’s women back. The truth is that we are magnificent beyond our belief and can no longer afford to play small.

7. Talk about your ideas
Create a circle of trusted friends, a supportive group of women who are willing to lovingly hold you to your highest and best. Weed out those who undermine your success. Don’t surround yourself with those who will allow you to remain a victim of life or who embellish your fears. Place less energy in forcing dysfunctional relationships to work, and instead put your time and energy into cultivating relationships that have a foundation of unconditional love. Life is too short wasting time on a ‘pity party’. Connection is built into a woman’s DNA, so create a mutually safe place with other like-minded women to commit to your evolving personal growth and consciousness. Ask for honest feedback, create and play with them, or call on them when you need help.

Women are so much better at giving than receiving, but you cannot give from an empty cup without eventually feeling resentment. Learn to receive support, and only give from a replenished heart.

8. Play, meander, wander, rest, be still, or go on an adventure
If you feel stuck, even when surrounded by a huge pile of ‘shoulds’, change your location, have a good laugh or a good cry. Take a walk. Get out and play. Go do something (anything!) other than what you ‘think’ you ‘should’ be doing. Change your surroundings, your focus, and change your mood. Reconnect with your heart, your body, and your true essence. Make room for your creativity and your perspective to return to you.

Evolutionary women have the innate ability to see the extraordinary in the ordinary. We see the potential and possibilities in just about anything and delight in simple pleasures. When you open your heart to your visionary skills, you will see you are not alone. There is a huge sisterhood of women who see the big picture, are ready to sing, and who with you tenderly hold peace in the palm of their hand.

Copyright 2006, all rights reserved
Reprint permission is granted if contact information is included in publication.

Rhonda Hull, Ph.D.
Professional Speaker, Mentor, and Author
of Drive Yourself Happy: A Motor-vational
Maintenance Manual for Maneuvering
Through Life

As a professional speaker, happiness mentor, and author of “Drive Yourself Happy”, let Dr. Rhonda Hull act as you ‘life driving instructor’ assisting you as you maneuver the road to personal balance, professional success, and authentic happiness. Rhonda has what it takes to guide you on your journey, making even the potholes along the way a valuable part of the adventure.

Visit: www.detourfromstress.com
Comments welcome at info@driveyourselfhappy.com

The Center of Happiness
P. O. Box 1667
Port Townsend, WA 98368
360.385.5850

Stretch, Love, Laugh, Smile

Category: Happiness, Rhonda's Articles • by rhonda • Thursday July 20, 2006

It is a common complaint. Women often do not feel like they are enough. The world of personal growth tends to reinforce this false belief that life is a problem to be solved rather than a journey to be traveled. With the abundance of coaches and consultants, personal trainers, and advisors many women become dependant on seeking “help” to solve a “problem” when all the answers reside inside of us. Often the greatest problem is coming to the realization that we too easily fall into that trap of seeing life as the problem, rather than our own disconnect from who we authentically are..

Life is not the problem! Life is an event to be experienced, a journey to be traveled, and an adventure to be experienced in every fiber of our being. If we need help, it is to resolve the problem of seeing life as a problem! We need to be invited to meet our true self. Mentors and therapists should be only a means to free us to experience life fully, and in so doing allow life to inspire us to be fully who we are.

Don’t hold yourself back any longer by your limiting beliefs. Reclaim you boldness, grit and power. This is what makes you beautiful. Break the chains and dare to take on the responsibility and delight of your own joy. Open your heart to life and experience it with all its hills and valleys, for they are our greatest teachers. They are inevitable and offer new vistas and viewpoints. They hone us into diamonds.

Do something you’ve always dreamed of, even if you might fail. Do something you’ve never thought of, especially if you feel fear. Give generously, and replenish yourself fully. Tolerate the fear and do it anyway.

It’s time to get out of your known way. Stretch. Jump. Laugh. Smile. Live. Love. Learn, and dare to leave your own unique and powerful legacy.

I’ll meet You There

Category: Quotes • by rhonda • Friday July 14, 2006

“Out beyond all rightdoing and all wrongdoing,
There is a field.
I will meet you there.”

- Rumi

Lovevolvelovevolve

Category: Happiness, Rhonda's Articles • by rhonda • Tuesday July 11, 2006

It was another amazing week. Did you know that life isn’t fair? It often isn’t easy. It comes with challenges, pain, and setbacks. I have been reminded of this over and over again through the heartache faced by my niece and her family as they maneuver the unimaginable weight created by their 2 year-old son’s leukemia, and one of my dearest friends was held up at gunpoint, left alive but feeling her freedom and peace of mind were taken away along with her purse. The purse can be replaced. Fear is harder to extract. Can there really be happiness here? I still believe it’s possible.

We keep trying to run away from tension and pain in our lives. We crave our comfort zone, and it is wonderful when we get to enjoy a smooth patch of life now and then. However, by its nature the human experience brings with it much we do not understand and it contains its fair share of inevitable twists and turns.

Life is far better when we discover how to surrender to it… all of it… even the hard parts, and to conserve our energy rather than resist. Durable happiness is ours when we discover that we can experience it despite the hurdles and potholes. The simple miracles of life actually taste even sweeter because we value the blessings by having known their opposites or by having weathered our way through hard decisions.

To love and to evolve, these are what we are called to do here on this journey from our head to our heart.

Lovevolvelovevolve.

Although we are spiritual beings, we are living a human experience that is sometimes beyond our comprehension. Because we are human, our progress is not always in forward steps. But through tension and simple joys, forward and backward steps, we can find our way to seeing that love is present and possible at the high points as well as amidst tension.

Though life sometimes calls for three steps forward followed by two back, leaning in a forward direction in spite of the circumstances brought to us by life is what allows us to experience deeper meaning, fuels our consciousness, and stretches our evolution. It’s what provides meaning and possibility to what we cannot fully make sense of. Personal growth seems to require tension in our lives. Happiness requires courage.

Tension, suffering, and pain are initiated when we feel our expectations are not met or the unexpected catches us off guard. Our greatest suffering is not the result of our circumstances as much as we want to place blame there. It comes from feeling alone. We isolate ourselves by holding on too tight to our own human vision of what life ‘should’ be. Happiness pleads with us to loosen our grip, and yet we move through life as if we have our foot on the accelerator with our parking brake on. The conflict of what is and what we want it to be fight each other. We exhaust and waste our energy as we struggle to regain a sense of control, attempting to force life to fit into our stubborn mold. What would happen if we merely let life lead?

It is a hard learned lesson for many of us that control is only an illusion, and that life is more joyful once we surrender to it, even when immersed in the most overwhelming circumstances. Tension is transformed, peace found, happiness experienced, and miracles realized when conflicting dimensions of reality are brought together in creative sense of balance and in wholeness through our ability to choose love as the guiding force regardless of the circumstances.

Disappointments, sadness, and irritations for now seem to remain an integral part of our human experience even when we don’t fully understand why. However, they prove to offer opportunities to grow if we embrace rather than resist them. The more we resist, the more they persist. We cannot prevent them, but we can expand our ability to handle them with grace. This path to happiness and peace of mind has little to do with the circumstances. It is inner, not outer.

Allowing space for what we cannot understand, forgiving ourselves for our anger, and encouraging our emotions to pass through acknowledged without attaching to them remaining long term residents makes way for noticing simple miracles even in the darkest times. Instead of asking, “Why is this happening to me?” we come to ask “What can I learn?” or “What gift is hiding here?”

It seems to be that being uncomfortable is what motivates us to interact with life. It confirms that we are alive. It is our discomfort that triggers new insights. When we stretch beyond our comfort zone our heart is more likely to open allowing us to lean willingly forward into life. A vulnerable heart is what hones us and acts as the catalyst for our personal evolution — it provides the opportunity for us, regardless of the circumstances, to discern the lesson, see the light, feel the love, experience the gift, and to reach for the highest ground with expanded awareness.

So, today I raise my glass to my fellow travelers who continue to see joy and manifest courage amidst crisis. I am inspired by and grateful to walk with those who are determined to take one more step forward after two discouraging steps back. Evolving may take greater focus and attention than remaining numb and angry, however, through believing that the light always dissolves and transforms the darkness, the gift we receive is happiness and love from the insight-out.

We lovevolvelovevolve. Together. Connected.

Drive Yourself Happy Newsletter 7/04/06

Category: Happiness, Rhonda's Articles • by rhonda • Monday July 3, 2006

Welcome to this week’s DRIVE YOURSELF HAPPY Road Ramblings.

If you find value in these gentle reminders and rules for the road, please invite your friends to sign up for my free newsletter by visiting www.driveyourselfhappy.com. Also visit my blogsite, www.centerofhappiness.com.

I’d like to welcome all of our new subscribers to the DRIVE YOURSELF HAPPY Road Ramblings newsletter and acknowledge you for taking the first step toward living a better life.

Today’s rambling from the road will include:

* An Unexpected Moment by Rhonda Hull, Ph.D.
* Appreciate Your Freedom by Alicia Dunham
* Freedom FYI
* Drive-By Quotes To Carry With You on the Journey

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An Unexpected Moment

Hello Friends and Traveling Companions,

What’s the big deal about meaningful moments? Everything. Meaningful moments can come at any time and be missed if you aren’t paying attention. They are those special times when we look at the ordinary and see the extraordinary. In these moments the kaleidoscope of our authentic self comes into focus. It is often the simple moments that capture us doing ordinary things and they magically turn into huge and lasting insights. They open our heart. They are what make life worth living.

Sometimes they happen unexpectedly, without any forethought, planning, or effort. Other times we nudge life to make them happen, or consciously create and celebrate them. When they call us to pause, we are pulled by and surrender to the possibility and set the conditions for love, acceptance and compassion to appear. All in an unexpected instant.

This morning I entered the elevator at the Ronald McDonald House, where I have been staying with my niece to assist in caring for her son, Connor, while healing from leukemia, and Carson, his baby brother. I was on my way to do a load of laundry, of which this situation provides an endless supply.

After a brief wait the doors of the elevator opened. Already in the elevator was a young man who was accompanied by two older people. All of them stood in silence. I was ready with a smile, but at first everyone kept his or her eyes down to avoid eye contact. I honored this and awaited the movement of the elevator. Then, with a deep sign, the young man next to me engaged me in conversation.

“I get to go home today,” he said, as if announcing his prison term was over. The long stays, many procedures, relentless change of plans, suspension of the life you knew, and the regular visits by the unknown can tangle these families in feelings of confinement, saddens, and restriction.

“Good for you.” I responded, assuming the treatment associated with cancer was over for his baby girl. An extended pause was then followed by an unexpected response. “Yes,” he said, “but the news is not good. My daughter died last night.”

It just happened instinctively. That moment appeared, my arms opened and we hugged. I felt his heavy heart through the bundle of clothes between us, and for a moment he melted into my embrace. Being strangers meant nothing for in that moment we became Universal family. Tears rolled down his cheeks as the doors of the elevator opened again and he and his parents exited the elevator and took their next steps on their path of grief and consciousness.

The doors shut. I stood in the elevator alone again, as my tears pre-washed the laundry in my arms. Such a brief connection, but an important connection just the same, and one I feel was valuable for both of us. I’ll never forget that moment that came and went so fast, and so unplanned, yet so intentional.

Happiness fits here somehow. It includes even moments like this that keep us open to all of life’s occasions and surprises. To muster the willingness to feel the depths of pain offers you the opportunity to experience the diamonds of joy honed by tears.

Life goes on, and the most challenging journey we ever face is only 18 inches. It is the one from our heads to our hearts.

In Joy,
Rhonda
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Appreciate Your Freedom-
An Update on Connor
by Alicia Dunham

Hello to all,

Often when I tell people how close in age Connor and Carson are they make a comment about how crazy I must be to have two so close together. Trust me that there have been many times in the last 6 months that I have thought I was crazy to. It was not until recently that I realized why God gave me my two boys only 19 months apart, he knew Connor was going to get sick and if I didn’t already have Carson I wouldn’t have had another baby. The hurt I feel is indescribable. The only way I can keep going is to know that the boys depend on me, and it won’t change anything to be upset or angry. I try to stay focused on the end goal and vision Connor as a survivor.

I know the power of prayer is strong but even though we have all been praying for less than 1% on Connor’s bone marrow test it is not what God has in the plan for us. The doctors called me yesterday to let me know that Connor’s MRD test still showed 3% leukemia. The doctors don’t really know what this means and are trying to decide on what the next step should be. At this point we have a meeting with Connor’s team of doctors Monday afternoon and he is going to be put on a different study program with high risk cancer patients and his course of treatment will be much more intense.

A few weeks ago a wonderful woman whom I never had met before e-mailed me and asked if she could run a couple of races in Connor’s honor. Her name is Gretchen Clark-Ross and she is running several marathons this summer to raise money for leukemia research I encourage everyone to check out her web-site at www.active.com/donate/tntwaak/tntwaakGCLARK- and see another angel in action.

I have so many questions, things to be thankful for, and hopes for the future. The last couple of weeks many people have said that I am handling this with such grace, I don’t think I am doing anything than any other mother who loves their child with every ounce of there soul wouldn’t do. Connor sets the example of how to get through this, the rest of us are just along for the ride.

Steve’s next visit was going to be the middle of July but after finding out the news yesterday he will be here today to help me and to take this next step as a family that will make it through this together. I will let you all know more as soon as we find out. Your love and support mean the world to me and please know that you are all AMAZING!

All our love,
Alicia and The Dunham’s

To follow Connor’s healing journey and to offer to support to the family, visit: http://www/thestatus.com. Click on ‘Visit a Patient’. Username: dunham. Password: unique-book.

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Freedom FYI

Alabama 1901, Preamble. We the people of the State of Alabama, invoking the favor and guidance of Almighty God, do ordain and establish the following Constitution.

Alaska 1956, Preamble. We, the people of Alaska, grateful to God and to those who founded our nation and pioneered this great land…

Arizona 1911, Preamble. We, the people of the State of Arizona, grateful to Almighty God for our liberties, do ordain this Constitution…

Arkansas 1874, Preamble. We, the people of the State of Arkansas, grateful to Almighty God for the privilege of choosing our own form of government…

California 1879, Preamble. We, the People of the State of California, grateful to Almighty God for our freedom…

Colorado 1876, Preamble. We, the people of Colorado, with profound reverence for the Supreme Ruler of Universe…

Connecticut 1818, Preamble. The People of Connecticut, acknowledging with gratitude the good Providence of God in permitting them to enjoy….

Delaware 1897, Preamble. Through Divine Goodness all men have, by nature, the rights of worshipping and serving their Creator according to the dictates of their consciences…

Florida 1885, Preamble. We, the people of the State of Florida, grateful to Almighty God for our constitutional liberty, establish this Constitution…

Georgia 1777, Preamble. We, the people of Georgia, relying upon protection and guidance of Almighty God, do ordain and establish this Constitution…

Hawaii 1959, Preamble. We, the people of Hawaii, Grateful for Divine Guidance. establish this Constitution…

Idaho 1889, Preamble. We, the people of the State of Idaho, grateful to Almighty God for our freedom, to secure its blessings…

Illinois 1870, Preamble. We, the people of the State of Illinois, grateful to Almighty God for the civil, political and religious liberty which He hath so long permitted us to enjoy and looking to Him for a blessing on our endeavors…

Indiana 1851, Preamble. We, the People of the State of Indiana, grateful to Almighty God for the free exercise of the right to chose our form of government…

Iowa 1857, Preamble. We, the People of the State of Iowa, grateful to the Supreme Being for the blessings hitherto enjoyed, and feeling our dependence on Him for a continuation of these blessings establish this Constitution…

Kansas 1859, Preamble. We, the people o f Kansas, grateful to Almighty God for our civil and religious privileges establish this Constitution…

Kentucky 1891, Preamble. We, the people of the Commonwealth are grateful to Almighty God for the civil, political and religious liberties…

Louisiana 1921, Preamble. We, the people of the State of Louisiana, grateful to Almighty God for the civil, political and religious liberties we enjoy…

Maine 1820, Preamble. We the People of Maine acknowledging with grateful hearts the goodness of the Sovereign Ruler of the Universe in affording us an opportunity … and imploring His aid and direction…

Maryland 1776, Preamble. We, the people of the state of Maryland, grateful to Almighty God for our civil and religious liberty…

Massachusetts 1780, Preamble. We…the people of Massachusetts, acknowledging with grateful hearts, the goodness of the Great Legislator of the Universe … in the course of His Providence, an opportunity and devoutly imploring His direction.

Michigan 1908, Preamble. We, the people of the State of Michigan, grateful to Almighty God for the blessings of freedom establish this Constitution.

Minnesota, 1857, Preamble . We, the people of the State of Minnesota, grateful to God for our civil and religious liberty, and desiring to perpetuate its blessings…

Mississippi 1890, Preamble. We, the people of Mississippi in convention assembled, grateful to Almighty God, and invoking His blessing on our work…

Missouri 1845, Preamble. We, the people of Missouri, with profound reverence for the Supreme Ruler of the Universe, and grateful for His goodness … establish this Constitution…

Montana 1889, Preamble. We, the people of Montana, grateful to Almighty God for the blessings of liberty establish this Constitution…

Nebraska 1875, Preamble. We, the people, grateful to Almighty God for our Freedom. establish this Constitution…

Nevada 1864, Preamble. We the people of the State of Nevada, grateful to Almighty God for our freedom establish this Constitution…

New Hampshire 1792, Part I. Art. I. Sec. V. Every individual has a natural and unalienable right to worship God according to the dictates of his own conscience…

New Jersey 1844, Preamble. We, the people of the State of New Jersey, grateful to Almighty God for civil and religious liberty which He hath so long permitted us to enjoy, and looking to Him for a blessing on our endeavors…

New Mexico 1911, Preamble. We, the People of New Mexico, grateful to Almighty God for the blessings of liberty…

New York 1846, Preamble. We, the people of the State of New York, grateful to Almighty God for our freedom, in order to secure its blessings…

North Carolina 1868, Preamble. We the people of the State of North Carolina, grateful to Almighty God, the Sovereign Ruler of Nations, for our civil, political, and religious liberties, and acknowledging our dependence upon Him for the continuance of those…

North Dakota 1889, Preamble. We, the people of North Dakota, grateful to Almighty God for the blessings of civil and religious liberty, do ordain…

Ohio 1852, Preamble. We the people of the state of Ohio, grateful to Almighty God for our freedom, to secure its blessings and to promote our common…

Oklahoma 1907, Preamble. Invoking the guidance of Almighty God, in order to secure and perpetuate the blessings of liberty… establish this…

Oregon 1857, Bill of Rights, Article I. Section 2 All men shall be secure in the Natural right, to worship Almighty God according to the dictates of their consciences…

Pennsylvania 1776, Preamble. We, the people of Pennsylvania, grateful to Almighty God for the blessings of civil and religious liberty, and humbly invoking His guidance

Rhode Island 1842, Preamble. We the People of the State of Rhode Island grateful to Almighty God for the civil and religious liberty which He hath so long permitted us to enjoy, and looking to Him for a blessing…

South Carolina, 1778, Preamble. We, the people of he State of South Carolina grateful to God for our liberties, do ordain and establish this Constitution…

South Dakota 1889, Preamble. We, the people of South Dakota, grateful to Almighty God for our civil and religious liberties…

Tennessee 1796, Art. XI.III. That all men have a natural and indefeasible right to worship Almighty God according to the dictates of their conscience…

Texas 1845, Preamble. We the People of the Republic of Texas,
acknowledging, with gratitude, the grace and beneficence of God…

Utah 1896, Preamble. Grateful to Almighty God for life and liberty, we establish this Constitution…

Vermont 1777, Preamble. Whereas all government ought to … enable the individuals who compose it to enjoy their natural rights, and other blessings which the Author of Existence has bestowed on man…

Virginia 1776, Bill of Rights, XVI …. Religion, or the Duty which we owe our Creator… can be directed only by Reason… and that it is the mutual duty of all to practice Christian Forbearance, Love and Charity towards each other…

Washington 1889, Preamble. We the People of the State of Washington, grateful to the Supreme Ruler of the Universe for our liberties, do ordain this Constitution…

West Virginia 1872, Preamble. Since through Divine Providence we enjoy the blessings of civil, political and religious liberty, we, the people of West Virginia reaffirms our faith in and constant reliance upon God…

Wisconsin 1848, Preamble. We, the people of Wisconsin, grateful to Almighty God for our freedom, domestic tranquility…

Wyoming 1890, Preamble. We, the people of the State of Wyoming, grateful to God for our civil, political, and religious liberties … establish this Constitution…

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Drive-By Quotes To Carry
With You on the Journey

“When I grip the wheel too tight, I find I lose control.”

– Steve Rapson

“The only real security in life lies in relishing life’s insecurity.”

– M. Scott Peck

“Do not abandon trust when your ego thinks
things should be different than they are.”

– Wayne Dyer

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